Aaarrgghhh How could they

[shazgh]

I am sure most of you have followed the story of the nursery workers.
I felt sick reading a news article there, how could they, she is a 39 year old women with teenage kids and her acts on these poor babies are ( I can't even think of a word to describe it)

It makes me want to wrap my gorgeous innocent girls in cotton wool and protect them from the world

[ruthie]

Wicked, let home they get the sentances they deserve though I doubt it makes the fact that it's against the law to leave your children with someone you know and trust unless they are a child minder too even more insane.

[Girlzmum]

Its bad enough that they did it but to not say which children it was done to is purely evil.

[Rainbowwitch]

The sentence they need is to be put into a room with the parents of these children/babies and the police turning a blind eye

[Girlzmum]

But that would breech their human rights. Instead we'll have to pay for round the clock protection for them so they can't get hurt in prison and when they're released we can be charged for them to be set up with a new life and new identity. They don't have to show remorse or apologise for ruining lives and that's classed as justice.

[bikemad]

I almost threw up when I heard it on the news.....it is sicker than sick....and it gets my goat that in the nick they will have round the clock protection...what about the kids who lives they messed up!!!

[Emsickle]

I think the worst thing is that they can't identify the children she did these things to, leaving all of the parents wondering if it was their child (apart from it happening in the first place that is). And a mother too.

[ruthie]

Its bad enough that they did it but to not say which children it was done to is purely evil.

I don't know about this, they did say it was the youngest children so hopefully they will forget about it, most of us don't remember things from a very early age, by knowing I guess they will be given therapy when older, treated differently etc and that too could leave scars.

[Girlzmum]

So they're young enough to not remember and that makes it ok for them not to know? That is ridiculous.

[Emsickle]

The parents will never forget though and will forever be wondering if it was their baby that was put in that position - I know if that was me, I wouldn't be able to cope with the not knowing, whether the child was young enough to not remember or not

[shazgh]

I agree that the are not likely to remember, but the hell the parents will be going through is unimaginable, they are the ones that will need counselling to come to terms with it and cope with it on a daily basis, I think the change in parenting may cause the chidren more problems, as they will be soooo protective, suspicious and over analyse everything. I think the children should be told but when that time would be right - who knows.

[Purplecat]

most of you know what has happened to me and my family, and I can say that the parents will never forget, and that, yes the children don't understand now but they will when the get older, our biggest fear is when DS hits 9/10 and will understand what happened, even if you think they won't remember, they will, every so often DS talks about what happened so I know it's in his head. he was going to be given therapy now but has been decided to do when he's older, there's nothing worst than having something like this happen and trying to pretend it's gone away, some may say let sleeping dogs ly, but to be honest, it's more like a pacing dog trying to work out when happened on their own, and thats not healthy.

People seem to get away with this kinda behaviour, the nasty peice of work who harmed my DS had a slap on the wrist and is back living next door!!! I have to see him every day.

was going to go anon but 1. not got the option when replying to this thread, and 2. most of you know who it would be anyway.

Anyway, basic jist, the children will never forget, the parents will never forget and never trust again, and the bastards should be hung

[shazgh]

most of you know what has happened to me and my family, and I can say that the parents will never forget, and that, yes the children don't understand now but they will when the get older, our biggest fear is when DS hits 9/10 and will understand what happened, even if you think they won't remember, they will, every so often DS talks about what happened so I know it's in his head. he was going to be given therapy now but has been decided to do when he's older, there's nothing worst than having something like this happen and trying to pretend it's gone away, some may say let sleeping dogs ly, but to be honest, it's more like a pacing dog trying to work out when happened on their own, and thats not healthy.

People seem to get away with this kinda behaviour, the nasty peice of work who harmed my DS had a slap on the wrist and is back living next door!!! I have to see him every day.

was going to go anon but 1. not got the option when replying to this thread, and 2. most of you know who it would be anyway.

Anyway, basic jist, the children will never forget, the parents will never forget and never trust again, and the bastards should be hung
Oh Lisa I have no idea what happened to your DS. I don't think anyone should ever try to forget something happened, it needs to be dealt with. and I agree capital punishment when there is no doubt about their guilt
(((HUGS)))

[ruthie]

[QUOTE=Emsickle;998690]The parents will never forget though and will forever be wondering if it was their baby that was put in that position - I know if that was me, I wouldn't be able to cope with the not knowing, whether the child was young enough to not remember or not[/QUOTE

But coping with the reality of it having happened to your child would be almost too much to bear, what good would knowing do? I don't know, there is no good option for such a situation is there! I think I would rather not know for sure because eventually your thoughts would move on with everyday life where as once you knew for sure I don't know how you ever clear though thoughts from your head. Apparently it has been said that the Nursery worker will get a new ID, why she should be locked up for good and not need one.

[ruthie]

most of you know what has happened to me and my family, and I can say that the parents will never forget, and that, yes the children don't understand now but they will when the get older, our biggest fear is when DS hits 9/10 and will understand what happened, even if you think they won't remember, they will, every so often DS talks about what happened so I know it's in his head. he was going to be given therapy now but has been decided to do when he's older, there's nothing worst than having something like this happen and trying to pretend it's gone away, some may say let sleeping dogs ly, but to be honest, it's more like a pacing dog trying to work out when happened on their own, and thats not healthy.

People seem to get away with this kinda behaviour, the nasty peice of work who harmed my DS had a slap on the wrist and is back living next door!!! I have to see him every day.

was going to go anon but 1. not got the option when replying to this thread, and 2. most of you know who it would be anyway.

Anyway, basic jist, the children will never forget, the parents will never forget and never trust again, and the bastards should be hung


Either way, knowing or not, must be a most terrible thing to have to cope with but maybe there would be a little help if at least child and parent knew that that person would never be free again.

[Digzy]

oh bloody el purplecat :(

[Purplecat]

we were lucky, in a way, coz it only happened once to DS and he has a good relationship with us and was old enough to know it wasn't right, even at 3yrs, he's doesn't know the extent that it was wrong, but he knew it was. I'm so glad he told us as the day before he told us the 12yr old(yes, 12) who did it went missing for so long long the police were called to find him, with the summer holidays on they're way, god knows what else the child had in mind, if DS hadn't off told us, we fear he would have taken DS with him to where ever it was he disappeared to.

They need to say which children they did it to and how often, just so all the parents can start getting their heads straight, the ones that weren't affected can start to rebuild their lives and the ones that were can seek the help they need.

[stokey]

purplecat i had no idea,so sorry x



Do you think that the husband and daughters of this monster woman should have kept their identities secret instead of splashing it all over the news of the world ?can't make my mind up if they are being very brave or very stupid?

[bikemad]

I dont think the hubby really didnt know tbh...how can someone be doing that n their other half not know!!?? She should not get protection in the nick and certainly not get a new id but then she should be locked up n the key thrown away tbh.