Debate : Living your life

[Daffs]

Would you live your life any differently if you didn't care what people thought? :unsure:

[smirnoff]

yes i would. I would tell people exactly what i think of them, i would be far more carefree!

[bikemad]

No-I already don't care what people think and speak my mind n tell it as it is all the time anyway lol. The school dread seeing me coming up the drive cos if Ive got something I want sorted I wont move till it is sorted and sorted my way.:cheesy: The way I look at it it it is my life n il only live once so im blowed if ill live it the way someone else perceives I ought to.

[Katiequiggle]

Good for you Em

I would probably be a bit like that too if I had the guts.

[Ravenfire]

No! People take me as they find me.

[curlywurly]

:yes:

[Nics n Jeevan]

No! People take me as they find me.

:iagree:

Good question to ask my mum and dad and the rest of the family though:hyper:

[Girlzmum]

I really don't know tbh as the people whos opinions are worth anything are the people I care about. I don't really pay any attention to people who want to judge me without knowing me.

[Bunny]

I often think and wish I'd gone out and had more fun, starting to regret it now, maybe it'd time for me to regain some independence and do what I want to do in life

[Whassat]

im a take me as you find me type of person, prob too soft and gullible, i think i would like to be much 'arder. but i do speak up for things i beleive in
i suppose i would go to the shops in my dressing gown and slippers and unbrushed hair if i didn't care what people thought though :cheesy:

[Bunny]

i suppose i would go to the shops in my dressing gown and slippers and unbrushed hair if i didn't care what people thought though :cheesy:


:hysterica you nutter, I've got this image of you in my head now doing that

[Emsickle]

:yes:

Then I might be able to live my life instead of being here (here not meaning MZ, meaning in this house btw)

[Nics n Jeevan]

i suppose i would go to the shops in my dressing gown and slippers and unbrushed hair if i didn't care what people thought though :cheesy:

I do that:hyper:but thats only because i live right next door to a shop:D

[*debbie*]

i could say yes cos then i wouldnt have stayed with my 1st bf i got at 16 and married and then divorced him 12 yrs later...but then i would have our 2 fab children.
But there are alot of other things i would do alot differently...i wuold have gone out and enjoyed myself alot more :kisshands:

[Apri]

Me too soft and gullible and wish I was much stronger - have great admiration for people that don't always care what people think. Trouble is I can often sense people's feelings and if they are hurt - I don't feel good.

[sab_100]

I would be a bit more direct with people who hack me off but apart from that I wouldnt change a thing- Its made me who I am today and I am happy! ( I have my poop moments but generally insanely ok!)

[aruba2209]

Don't know the answer to this - maybe somethings - like got with dh sooner, but then would it have lasted?????

This thread has got me thinking and I stll don't know the answer

[mothermayi]

I would be meaner, dont know if i would be happier with myself and my life that way. I like the way I am kind to people so that they like me...

on the other hand, i dont care in general what people think of how i look and act...i might be a bit more goofy at work, as i sometimes think i am supposed to be mature there. i would bust out my fun and imaginative non matching socks and comfy pants look a lot more often =) and i might try to have dreads...that would be fun. and dye my hair...yeah. dark brown...plain, i know, but because ive always wondered what id look like with a change in hair color. id also wear TONS of jewelry, clanking everywhere...so fun!! alright alright im going overboard here.....

on that note, what would you do if you knew you couldnt fail???????

[Aisha]

I dont think id be all that different. There are alot of big things in my life that alot of people I know disapprove of, so if I do something small, like run to the store in my pyjamas then its hardly a big deal, its just something else that crazy old Aisha does.