*debbie*
16-01-2008, 11:40 AM
My ds1,14, stayed at his dads last night, which is a 5 min walk from me. He left his house for school bus, and ended up at mine...crying! Saying he was having hassle off his other friends now who have taken sides with this bully!
So i ended up taking him to school to get it sorted.
I was told i wouldnt be able to speak to anyone, as there were a few teachers off sick and they were very stretched. But i told them i am not moving until i speak to someone, so they told me to take a seat with ds1 in reception.
I evetually got to speak to somone, and he wrote Liams name on this form and the date...he then decided he had to go as he was taking 2 tutor groups this morning and didnt have time. So i told him there must be someone else cos i was going no where :fryingpan:
So he made a phone call and said he was taking Liam to see a student support assistant, who are there specifically for the kids to talk to with their problems, and she would advice liam, and also report back to his form tutor and others that need to know, to get things put in place to get it stopped.
So he took Liam off to see her, he was in tears, i was trying to stop my tears overflowing but they did. I told Liam if he wasnt happy with anything to get them to phone me and i would come back!
I then bumped into my dd's bf's mother, she is a secretary there. She dragged me into her office, and i sat and cried and told her what was going on. Her son and my dd were both bullied for there last 2 yrs at the school, thankfully they survived it and are now at college and thriving. So she said the times she has sat in her office and cried when her son had gone to her pouring his heart out. She was lovely and told me to tell Liam if he is ever worried or frightened at school that he can go to her! :kisshands:
I just hope this gets sorted. My son is such a quiet lad. I told him this morning, when your feeling angry and they are having a go at you..i said 'you know that voice you get in your head screaming at them to shut up and go away' i said well let it out of your mouth, you dont have to be nasty just say to them' please leave me alone, i dont want to know you go away' kind of thing. Ive told him it may just make them leave you alone too, if you can speak up and tell them what you think.
Littl sh1ts, why do humans have to be so horrible to each other, my son wouldnt hurt a fly :cloud9: :gly:
thanks for listening, had to get that out :gly:
So i ended up taking him to school to get it sorted.
I was told i wouldnt be able to speak to anyone, as there were a few teachers off sick and they were very stretched. But i told them i am not moving until i speak to someone, so they told me to take a seat with ds1 in reception.
I evetually got to speak to somone, and he wrote Liams name on this form and the date...he then decided he had to go as he was taking 2 tutor groups this morning and didnt have time. So i told him there must be someone else cos i was going no where :fryingpan:
So he made a phone call and said he was taking Liam to see a student support assistant, who are there specifically for the kids to talk to with their problems, and she would advice liam, and also report back to his form tutor and others that need to know, to get things put in place to get it stopped.
So he took Liam off to see her, he was in tears, i was trying to stop my tears overflowing but they did. I told Liam if he wasnt happy with anything to get them to phone me and i would come back!
I then bumped into my dd's bf's mother, she is a secretary there. She dragged me into her office, and i sat and cried and told her what was going on. Her son and my dd were both bullied for there last 2 yrs at the school, thankfully they survived it and are now at college and thriving. So she said the times she has sat in her office and cried when her son had gone to her pouring his heart out. She was lovely and told me to tell Liam if he is ever worried or frightened at school that he can go to her! :kisshands:
I just hope this gets sorted. My son is such a quiet lad. I told him this morning, when your feeling angry and they are having a go at you..i said 'you know that voice you get in your head screaming at them to shut up and go away' i said well let it out of your mouth, you dont have to be nasty just say to them' please leave me alone, i dont want to know you go away' kind of thing. Ive told him it may just make them leave you alone too, if you can speak up and tell them what you think.
Littl sh1ts, why do humans have to be so horrible to each other, my son wouldnt hurt a fly :cloud9: :gly:
thanks for listening, had to get that out :gly: