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bonjovibabe
16-01-2008, 11:18 AM
They have said I shoud get a letter from them in the next couple of weeks to tell me what is going to happen and see if I agree to it. He was always in arrears when he was paying it put he stopped paying over a year ago and they have said they are going to claim everythig he owes all in one go and it will come to me as soon as they get it.
I hav never taken csa payments into accout when sorting out our bills and stuff so to be honest, I couldnt care less if he pays or not, it makes no odds to me, but, if we were to get some money from him, I can treat ds, maybe if there is enough, I might even be able to take ds on holiday this year.
Im not going to say anything to dp or ds about it just yet as I dont want to gie them any false hopes and like I said, it makes no odds to me if we dont get it, but it would be nice.

Purplecat
16-01-2008, 11:22 AM
:crossfing you get some thing out of this. More of these 'men' should be made to pay.

A friend of mine has a little girl and even though he still comes around asking for it, and the gilr looks just like him he has never acknowledged the fact and has never helped her. (she's an idiot coz she lets him get away with everything)

*debbie*
16-01-2008, 11:25 AM
so was he someone you knew? or an anonymous donor?
:kisshands:

bonjovibabe
16-01-2008, 11:31 AM
so was he someone you knew? or an anonymous donor?
:kisshands:

lol, I knew him. I just wish he wasnt ds`s bio. He is a total w****r and should be in prison but he got away with things he shouldnt have. We are better off without him anywhere near us.


Sorry didnt mean to rant

*debbie*
16-01-2008, 11:43 AM
no probs hun, if yo can get something from him then you go for it and treat ds..good luck hun, and you rant away if you want too :kisshands: ""cutey""b :kisshands:

Catkin
16-01-2008, 12:02 PM
good for you hunni!

My kids' bio father never paid maintenance either.

Fingers crossed Sam

x x x

saluki
16-01-2008, 01:52 PM
Good for you hun, These men should be made to take care of their responsibilities!! if this was what happened to every man, then maybe more men would use a condom!!! :kisshands:

bikemad
16-01-2008, 01:55 PM
Really hope they coller him n you get what you ought to.:kisshands:

Seren
16-01-2008, 02:01 PM
good luck


my ds bio father skipped the country over a year ago to get out of paying. Got used to it and now don't care, ds gets everything he needs.