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signum
30-12-2007, 07:15 PM
I wonder if this thread will get removed.....as I posted one yesterday and that got removed, and posted a response to another thread and that got removed :(


Hi, I'm new here. I hope you are all well and having a better time than I currently am having!

I work in IT, something I've always wanted to do and work for a company i always wanted to work for, and have my own contracting company also (just me!), and as well as that I am a DJ and upcoming producer also (hopefully).

I enjoy what I do but importantly I am a believer of self improvement/personal development as well as helping others for the better and making them become a better person overall and see them succeed and reach their full potential. I have even changed a few lives and something I am also proud of, for them to see the better and have a happier and or healthier life, it's a powerful thing to do to another human being, especially the day and age we live in today.

I am recently hurt alot by a certain someone, its not nice at all after everything we had done together and been through together, the connection, closeness, intimacy etc.... and the pure love that was generated and given.....only to be taken away for no reason what so ever.

Having been alone and lonely my entire life, and having no support from anyone at all, it hurts alot.


Hmmm a sad introduction I guess! I apologise. I generally am much much more positive but when times are tough, yet again, it hurts and especially the season we are in......bleh!


Well, I hope to talk to some members here and hopefully share each others views/opinions etc....


Thank-you for your valuable time in reading this useless thread :-)


P.S - who are the moderators of these forums because I would like to PM them and ask them a couple of questions!

-Joy-
30-12-2007, 07:17 PM
Hello Signum again :wave2:

If u go to the home page, and go right to the bottom, the mods are in green

Whassat
30-12-2007, 07:22 PM
hi and welcome. sorry to hear about your crappy time

signum
30-12-2007, 07:23 PM
bah what a nice thing to say "welcome, sorry to hear about your crappy time" lol - sorry that just made me laugh :-)

-Joy-
30-12-2007, 07:24 PM
bah what a nice thing to say "welcome, sorry to hear about your crappy time" lol - sorry that just made me laugh :-)

Well I did answer you last night twice lol!

So Im waiting to see if your thread appears again :D

signum
30-12-2007, 07:27 PM
Thanks joy!

No that thread didnt appear. and a post of mine was removed in another thread by essexgirl! :-( not feeling welcome at all and would love to know what it is I am doing wrong.

denise1981
30-12-2007, 07:27 PM
:wave2::wave2:

Easties
30-12-2007, 07:28 PM
Hello :happy72:

signum
30-12-2007, 07:28 PM
Hi denise. Just curious, where in south wales are you? I was in Swansea on Thursday I believe...

interesting experience...but thats a different story!

denise1981
30-12-2007, 07:30 PM
Hi denise. Just curious, where in south wales are you? I was in Swansea on Thursday I believe...

interesting experience...but thats a different story!

Near Newport!

signum
30-12-2007, 07:39 PM
I'm based in Berkshire. Been a year and 2 days since I moved back down to where I am now....and no one to celebrate with lol. Well not that im in some celebrating mood!

Where is everyone else based? are you all involved with a partner or single mum's? (Sorry, don't mean to sound wierd or anything of the sort!)

-Joy-
30-12-2007, 07:43 PM
Im happily married with three children :D

amandaj
30-12-2007, 07:44 PM
im married with 3 kids , 3rd time lucky i hope lol

signum
30-12-2007, 07:46 PM
wow, all are very lucky to be committed with someone, as well as being busy and having kids. good on you, at least there are some people who are committed, unlike the way people are these days.....

Easties
30-12-2007, 08:05 PM
im with a partner have been for 9 years and have 2 kids

kate1
30-12-2007, 08:20 PM
hi :wave2:

lisaequi
30-12-2007, 08:22 PM
:kisshands:

Whassat
30-12-2007, 08:29 PM
I'm based in Berkshire. Been a year and 2 days since I moved back down to where I am now....and no one to celebrate with lol. Well not that im in some celebrating mood!

Where is everyone else based? are you all involved with a partner or single mum's? (Sorry, don't mean to sound wierd or anything of the sort!)

http://bestsmileys.com/signs16/2.gif














(only joking) :hysterica

im in Devon. married with 3 kiddies.

what exactly happened in your relationship? you sound very hurt (not sure if thats the right word..but ) by it all

Olive_Oil
30-12-2007, 08:34 PM
:sign16:

Lynne4
30-12-2007, 08:38 PM
hello and welcome!! I'm also married with 5 kids :cheesy:

Ravenfire
30-12-2007, 08:46 PM
Your posts haven't been removed, they were automatically moderated, which would have been due to the content of your posts. If you do have any queries please send them directly to me.

signum
30-12-2007, 11:34 PM
Thanks Ravenfire! Interesting as the content was just fine....but no worries, ill let you moderate that and get back if thats ok ;-)

the lady with 5 kids? Well wow.... one lucky busy girl!

in regards to another members response about "what exactly happened with your relationship" - beats me. as far as i know, in the end, she cheated for no reason and could not handle how great/good everything was and the fact I was different to the people she had been with and had never ever fallen in love with anyone but me.

Then well, she just played silly childish games, being totally immature and spreading alot of lies about me. And I've never ever in my entire life had a hug, or a kiss or someone to cuddle up with....she was the first. Feelings etc... where great and pretty much the same. no pressure or anything, all natural and pretty much going with the flow but always asking if there was something she wants/needs or if she is comfortable to which the response was always yes, with a big smile and you could see it in her eyes.....probably too much detail here, sorry

*embarrased*

right now, all alone, cold, lonely.....and totally rejected!

Hmmm time for another walk? Hate those walks......

Jacks Aunty
31-12-2007, 12:52 AM
:hitheresmiley:
Welcome to MZ :kisshands:

Im married ( 16 years) and guardian to my nephew (5)