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Headbanging Vonnie
21-12-2007, 08:18 PM
Remember the one?

Today our girls were going to play at another girl's house. My friend and I decided to walk the girls round there together (she is a few doors down from me and on my way so I was going to knock for her). She texted me last night to say she had forgotten she was working in the morning and would I mind taking her daughter if not her DH would take her. I said yes, no problem - as I said it is on my way - and I texted her that maybe she or her DH would bring my girls home at 5pm and she said that was fine.

Anyway I got a text from her while I was out saying would I mind if she brought the girls back at 6.30 as she was going to have a drink with the mum. Grrrrrr I ask her to do just ONE favour and that's what I get. She would have been walking my girls home p***ed (she can't stop at one glass of wine) and an hour and a half later than I asked. So I just told her DH would pick her up. Then she sent me two texts begging me to let her bring them and saying "I will drive round at 5 pick them up and then go back for a drink." And she added "such a shame you can't join us for a drink" - she always has to rub salt in the wound when she knows I'm working and why does she have to make a point that she is socialising with someone other than me its like she's trying to make me jealous. I'm so angry.

smirnoff
21-12-2007, 08:46 PM
*hugs* hunnipie

Squishymama
21-12-2007, 08:51 PM
:kisshands::kisshands::kisshands:

kate1
21-12-2007, 08:56 PM
:kisshands:

angelcake71
21-12-2007, 11:05 PM
:kisshands::kisshands:

Katiequiggle
21-12-2007, 11:17 PM
Silly cow, I don't know why you keep letting her lead you merry dance, dump her. She's the silly cow by the way not you.

Headbanging Vonnie
21-12-2007, 11:20 PM
Silly cow, I don't know why you keep letting her lead you merry dance, dump her. She's the silly cow by the way not you.

I turned the heat down and all was fine. In the last few days I was feeling guilty as she seemed to be making an effort but as soon as I get friendlier with her she starts with all the silliness. On her kid's birthday, she hadn't got the party ready in time and I had to pick the kid up from school so she could finish everything! Then she did the party on a Friday thinking I would be there to help/have a drink, totally forgetting I was working and then said "oh if I had remembered I'd have done the party on the Thursday instead" - I had the night off from work - as if that is supposed to make me feel better.

Emsickle
22-12-2007, 12:18 AM
:kisshands:

buzylizzy
23-12-2007, 10:43 AM
I think if I were you I would keep a little bit of a distance between you as she seems to behave better then as soon as you get friendly she seems to be taking the micky a bit.I know thats easier said than done though. :kisshands:

Headbanging Vonnie
23-12-2007, 11:15 PM
I think if I were you I would keep a little bit of a distance between you as she seems to behave better then as soon as you get friendly she seems to be taking the micky a bit.I know thats easier said than done though. :kisshands:

You're right. When I'm distant she acts all needy but then as soon as I let her in I get trampled on.

*Yvonne*
23-12-2007, 11:45 PM
I have a friend who is just the same, I don't know if I'm coming or going with her half the time sadly. Just remember you are better than her hun xxxx

sanjan
24-12-2007, 08:09 AM
You're right. When I'm distant she acts all needy but then as soon as I let her in I get trampled on.

sounds like you need to put a mental barrier up between you and her and keep it up so that she can't get close any more

smirnoff
24-12-2007, 08:30 AM
*hugs* von