kish4
08-09-2007, 12:04 PM
Anyone figured out how you manage working full time, being a sane and good mum, and wife, and housekeeper and still having your own life? I hate housework so that tends to be the last job, and although hubbie does do alot around the house if he comes home and finds me sitting down for a minute I feel guilty!
On a major guilt trip all the time it seems because I like my job but feel I should be a proper mum, and love my little boy and he is happy, but feel I'm not being a good mum, and feel I want to keep hubbie happy, and at the same time I want to get out and meet up with friends but feel guilty if I go out especially as we are not well off at the mo' and feel I shouldn't be spending money on anything, or leaving my son at home for hubbie to look after.
On a major guilt trip all the time it seems because I like my job but feel I should be a proper mum, and love my little boy and he is happy, but feel I'm not being a good mum, and feel I want to keep hubbie happy, and at the same time I want to get out and meet up with friends but feel guilty if I go out especially as we are not well off at the mo' and feel I shouldn't be spending money on anything, or leaving my son at home for hubbie to look after.