TopKat

[Lemon]

I know your having a break, how's the house doing - you must be up to stratch now ... so come back :kisshands:

[Olive_Oil]

yea tk! come back! miss ya! :yes:

[darwins]

i miss you too

[Girlzmum]

TK flounced in a big huff yesterday said she wasn't coming back.

[Sarah]

I don't think she'll be back either. I was just thinking that.

[TopKat]

I won't be back, no. But I had heard that people were asking after me, so as a courtesy to them am on to say bye. I am done here, and it is well known. I won't go into the reasons as it has been done already. Although I do have to say there was no flouncing involved, just disappointment in numerous things.

Anyway to my friends, I share the news that my niece was born on Saturday night at 8.25pm. She was 6lb 13oz and by all accounts is a happy wee bundle. This is her, her name is Molly Rose.

And on that happy note, I am off to pastures new.

Those who want me, know where to find me.:kisshands:

[Girlzmum]

I stand corrected! And here was me thinking that if you left in a huff because things weren't going your own way you were flouncing.

[Lemon]

I won't be back, no. But I had heard that people were asking after me, so as a courtesy to them am on to say bye. I am done here, and it is well known. I won't go into the reasons as it has been done already. Although I do have to say there was no flouncing involved, just disappointment in numerous things.

Anyway to my friends, I share the news that my niece was born on Saturday night at 8.25pm. She was 6lb 13oz and by all accounts is a happy wee bundle. This is her, her name is Molly Rose.

And on that happy note, I am off to pastures new.

Those who want me, know where to find me.:kisshands:

Welcome to the world Molly Rose ! Congratulations on being an Aunty TK. :party05:

I was ignorant to any problems, I'm sorry. I'm sorry that you are leaving, I wish you well hun and I hope any issues can be resolved.

:kisshands:

[Jen]

Think I must have missed something......But welcome to the world Molly Rose.

[storm35]

Congratulations on being an aunty, well done, she is gorgeous, now you will have to spoil her rotten lol.
Sorry to hear you go my love, its sad it really is, yuo know where i am hunni.
:kisshands: :kisshands: :kisshands: :kisshands: :kisshands:

[Apri]

Just wanted to wish you lots of happiness and hope you will visit or come back soon. I appreciate I don't really know you, but have seen you are very popular on this site and will be missed.
Take care of yourself
Congrats on being an Auntie too

[sal1]

Congrats tk on becoming auntie she's lovely and a lovely name.... Sorry to hear your leaving you will be sadly missed... Take care xx

[Tanya]

congrats on the arrival of your niece Molly Rose, she's beautiful

excuse my ignorance but I may have missed something about you leaving!!

hope you're ok and keep yourself happy with wherever it is you're going :kisshands:

[TopKat]

I stand corrected! And here was me thinking that if you left in a huff because things weren't going your own way you were flouncing.

Thank you Colette, you have beautifully illustrated one of the things I find disappointing about this site......

[Seren]

20061010

she looks beautiful

Catch up on msn sometime?

B

[Amandax]

Congrats on becoming an aunty TK. I wish u well for the future.


:kisshands:

[smirnoff]

beautiful baby, beautiful name!
Take Care TK...

[Easties]

Congrats Tk shes beautiful
I wish you well for the future
Take care xx

[Sluff]

Aww she is gorgeous!

Sorry you are leaving under such circumstances.

Wish you well...

[xmisscx]

Thank you Colette, you have beautifully illustrated one of the things I find disappointing about this site......

what?? members get to have an opinion??
Some people are all for giving it out but when confronted get upset and leave.

I agree with Colette, thats flouncing in my book!

[Patti odoors]

Congratulations on your new neice, she is a,little sweetie. Sorry you are leaving us. I will catch you later by e-mail. Take care, love to you and yours :kisshands:

[TopKat]

20061010

she looks beautiful

Catch up on msn sometime?

B

Yeah sure, thanks hun.:kisshands:

[TopKat]

what?? members get to have an opinion??
Some people are all for giving it out but when confronted get upset and leave.

I agree with Colette, thats flouncing in my book!

That is not my point at all. I am not upset at being confronted at all, as to be honest I don't think I have been really. What annoys me about this, is I don't remember you or Colette having anything to do with what happened at the weekend. And going by the use of the word flouncing which Toni herself seems to favour, to me you seem to be going by what you have been told rather than what you have seen and thought out for yourselves. That is what annoys me.

What also annoys me is the fact that Toni herself, said I should come on and review my posts to see how they could be taken by other people...but removed the post about me leaving pretty much immediately from what I gather....and also locked me out of chatterbox and the private section without so much as a warning, which some others I have spoken to seem to think is against the rules, as I should of at least had a pm warning me of that.

Anyway, for these and a heap of other reasons, this is no longer the place for me. There is too much backstabbing going on, and I am tired of being dealt with like a naughty school girl. But, I wanted to come on, not to voice this, but I feel my hand has been forced to, but to thank my friends who wish me well.

To all of them thanks.:kisshands:

[duck_egg]

I appear to have missed all this too!! but congrats on becoming an auntie tk and sorry to hear you're leaving us x x x

[Easties]

Topkat i would just like to say i havent backstabbed you (i dont think) i just voiced an opinion
Im sorry it has come to this really i am and i really do wish you well in whatever you do it would be a shame for you to go but if you feel that is what you need to do then thats fair enough
I dont want to get into a debate about anything but i just wanted to show i have nothing against you never have and never will

take care hun
all the best xx

[smirnoff]

TK I consider you a friend but i do believe that some of the comments you made were off the mark as i said to you...

I wish you loads of love, luck and happiness hunni...

Leave it there.. draw a line and move on...

[Ravenfire]

Right ok I didnt want to do this publically but as you refuse to discuss this with me privately I have no choice.

I removed your previous post because you referred to other members as being arselickers and I thought that was hurtful and uncalled for. Also, because the disagreement went on in PPS a lot of people didnt realise just how rude you were to another member and how offensive your remarks were. Im all for debate etc but when you hide behing the anon name to make bitchy remarks to another member I cannot just pretend I havent seen it and say nothing!

I also did not want to give you a window to keep this going which you have chosen to do hence the removal of your post from gossip. I think you have made your point now and tbh if you are not happy with it here then why keep returning. And yes if this continues to be some sort of slanging match then I will remove this topic as well because I dont think its fair on all the other members on the site to have to read this.

I will say to you again if you have a problem then please contact me by PM to discuss this!

[TopKat]

Right ok I didnt want to do this publically but as you refuse to discuss this with me privately I have no choice.

I removed your previous post because you referred to other members as being arselickers and I thought that was hurtful and uncalled for. Also, because the disagreement went on in PPS a lot of people didnt realise just how rude you were to another member and how offensive your remarks were. Im all for debate etc but when you hide behing the anon name to make bitchy remarks to another member I cannot just pretend I havent seen it and say nothing!

I also did not want to give you a window to keep this going which you have chosen to do hence the removal of your post from gossip. I think you have made your point now and tbh if you are not happy with it here then why keep returning. And yes if this continues to be some sort of slanging match then I will remove this topic as well because I dont think its fair on all the other members on the site to have to read this.

I will say to you again if you have a problem then please contact me by PM to discuss this!

I have only returned as it was brought to my attention that people were asking after me and I felt it would be rude for me to ignore that. Also I thought as people knew about my brother's baby that I should post to let them know she arrived safely.

I am done, and don't want to discuss things any further as it has all been said to death already. If you want to ban me or remove me from your members list or whatever it is that you do when folk leave, then please go ahead.

I didn't want to have to leave under a cloud, but I suppose given all that has gone on I have had no choice but to. I stand by all that was said, I am never going to think any different over that matter.

[xmisscx]

That is not my point at all. I am not upset at being confronted at all, as to be honest I don't think I have been really. What annoys me about this, is I don't remember you or Colette having anything to do with what happened at the weekend. And going by the use of the word flouncing which Toni herself seems to favour, to me you seem to be going by what you have been told rather than what you have seen and thought out for yourselves. That is what annoys me.
What also annoys me is the fact that Toni herself, said I should come on and review my posts to see how they could be taken by other people...but removed the post about me leaving pretty much immediately from what I gather....and also locked me out of chatterbox and the private section without so much as a warning, which some others I have spoken to seem to think is against the rules, as I should of at least had a pm warning me of that.

Anyway, for these and a heap of other reasons, this is no longer the place for me. There is too much backstabbing going on, and I am tired of being dealt with like a naughty school girl. But, I wanted to come on, not to voice this, but I feel my hand has been forced to, but to thank my friends who wish me well.

To all of them thanks.:kisshands:

Just to make a point.

Colette and I are Moderators, everything that happens on the site is to do with us, whether we commented on the post itself or just read it doesnt matter, - we are here to do a job, which is to make sure all members are treated respectfully and supported by us all, (esp in private support) We work alongside Toni, she doesnt control us and tell us what to think.

[weaselgirl]

Aww, welcome to the world Molly Rose, she is beautiful.

Topkat, i have no idea about what has gone on but wanted to wish you well, i will miss you.

[runragged]

Aww, welcome to the world Molly Rose, she is beautiful.

Topkat, i have no idea about what has gone on but wanted to wish you well, i will miss you.

Ditto. Congratulations on being an auntie :hyper: :hyper: :kisshands: gd12

[Girlzmum]

Just to make a point.

Colette and I are Moderators, everything that happens on the site is to do with us, whether we commented on the post itself or just read it doesnt matter, - we are here to do a job, which is to make sure all members are treated respectfully and supported by us all, (esp in private support) We work alongside Toni, she doesnt control us and tell us what to think.

Thank you Erica! I'm not under anyones control, nor have I been told what to think. It's so hard when you see a section that people turn to when most in need of support being turned into an opportunity to tear a person to shreds.