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anonymous
08-02-2007, 10:13 PM
I have just had a phone call from a friend telling me of another friend calling her and crying. Basically her little sister got with my nasty piece of work ex. History is repeating itself once again and he has started beating her up, physically and emotionally.

I'm so upset (and I haven't cried about this side of my passed for a long time) I just feel angry with the crown court and angry with the police and angry that a tw@t of a man can get away with it time and time again... well he can can't he though that's the flipping problem!

He was accused at school of rape by a gf... he told me this when we got together so stupid me just thought if he told me he must be telling the truth about it being rubbish. anyway he made out it was when they were together but it wasn't.

I then went on to have a what i thought was a great relationship until we moved into together and the violence and emotional torture started... and i see myself as a strong willed person but he got inside my head.

This just got worse until i realised and i threw him out... andf then he got obsessed and would sit on my door step phoning me continually.

Anyway the worst happened one night and I did what i thought was the right thing and went to the police. It didn't even get to court.

And now its happening again... history repeating itself. How and why... i just don't understand. This poor girl is already on the recieving end of his fist.. apparently she has tried to kcik him out but he is refusing to leave. I have told my friend to get her out of there... call the police, he wasn't convicted but it will be on his record he can't keep getting away with it.

I can't stop crying first through pain of the memories and then the worry of this girl ( i know her but didn't want to post names) and the anger.

I just know i will have bad dreams again tonight too and don't want to go to bed!

When is this B@$t*rd going to be brought down!

darwins
08-02-2007, 10:17 PM
what a scum bag, sorry but that kind or creature is the lowest of the low

smirnoff
08-02-2007, 10:19 PM
oh hunni... if i can help at all let me know...

storm
08-02-2007, 11:06 PM
:kisshands: :kisshands: :kisshands: :kisshands:

anonymous
08-02-2007, 11:24 PM
thanks ladies,

I have now just found out my friends mum's cancer treatment hasn't worked and she is scared she won't see her grandaughters first birthday.

what a crap night! my problems seem minimal in comparison to losing your mum though. God I'm an emotional wreck!

smirnoff
08-02-2007, 11:25 PM
oh babe....

i wish i could do something to help, but i have no idea what... sorry am totally useless...

bonjovibabe
08-02-2007, 11:31 PM
i agree the justice system is crap. We went to court against my ds bio sperm doner (he is not worthy of any other title). We were not allowed by the judge to use all the evidence we had against him then he got aquitted through lack of evidence! He was there for GBH towards my ds. I have lost all faith in the law.

anonymous
08-02-2007, 11:36 PM
just writing it is helping to be honest.... i had just collected myself and sorted my head out about the first thing after ranting on here and then i heard from my friend about her mum!

life is so hard sometimes

anonymous
08-02-2007, 11:39 PM
It's crap isn't it.

I feel bad as I am sure he bullied my ds when i was with him but couldn't see it at the time.

I know he remembers it vaguely although he never speaks about it because when my friend named their baby the same name my ds said .... i don't like that name mum.

I think they should have the bits cut off and fed to them!

bikemad
08-02-2007, 11:46 PM
""cutey""b ""cutey""b I so know what you mean its the same with my ex I called the cops on him n they said o its a domestic-since then he has had another fiance n did the same to her n she called the cops n they said the same thing-its so wrong-there is no justice or law in this country tbh its a big joke.

bonjovibabe
08-02-2007, 11:54 PM
My ds had 2 brain hemmoridges, same in both eyes, fractured rib and skull when he was 1 month old from that monster. Couldnt believe it when after waiting 2 years for it to go to crown court they did that.
On the plus side there was no perminant damage to my ds and no contact is allowed. Its just not right that he got away with it!
(sorry about spelling mistakes)