View Full Version : I swear am going crack
storm35
11-01-2007, 10:15 PM
People call you or email you, saying ohh i love your site and do you do wholesale, yes i do, ohh great, thanks for the catalogue will get back to you and by the way how do you get certified, does it cost, not that i am going to mak emy own soap, i just buy other ppls in and sell it, and where do you do blah blah and then they ignore you.
You got to msn and say hiya how you gettin on then they bugger off, just wanted info about legal stuff, and i give it out gladly, i never ever learn from that, as i am tooo nice, ppl say, so maybe its time to be big hard Chrisssy from now on and tell them no am sorry not goin to share anything with you, but thats not me, i hate gettin used and made a fool of i really really do.
Cx
smirnoff
11-01-2007, 10:17 PM
oh hun.. i sympathise.
you are going to have to toughen up though or else you wont be alone in what you do iysiwm??!!!
Daffs
11-01-2007, 10:18 PM
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
You are so like me. Stop letting people walk all over you.
It's a ver hard lesson to learn and it has taken me 2 years now to get over the need to help people for nothing. Of course I am still soft, but I know how it works now. Chris, have a great big hug, people should not take advantage of you. Tell me who they are and I will send them a virus or go round with my frying pan.
""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b
darwins
11-01-2007, 10:20 PM
People call you or email you, saying ohh i love your site and do you do wholesale, yes i do, ohh great, thanks for the catalogue will get back to you and by the way how do you get certified, does it cost, not that i am going to mak emy own soap, i just buy other ppls in and sell it, and where do you do blah blah and then they ignore you.
You got to msn and say hiya how you gettin on then they bugger off, just wanted info about legal stuff, and i give it out gladly, i never ever learn from that, as i am tooo nice, ppl say, so maybe its time to be big hard Chrisssy from now on and tell them no am sorry not goin to share anything with you, but thats not me, i hate gettin used and made a fool of i really really do.
Cx
think of this, your business pays your wages, your wages feeds your kids, if i ask for the food from your childrens mouths what would you say?
smirnoff
11-01-2007, 10:20 PM
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
You are so like me. Stop letting people walk all over you.
It's a ver hard lesson to learn and it has taken me 2 years now to get over the need to help people for nothing. Of course I am still soft, but I know how it works now. Chris, have a great big hug, people should not take advantage of you. Tell me who they are and I will send them a virus or go round with my frying pan.
""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b
so you sending viruses out??? i think that is the least they deserve... how can they be mean to someone who is so lovely?????
I dont understand it!!!!!!!!!!
towards either of you
storm35
11-01-2007, 10:21 PM
[QUOTE=Daffs;309954]NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
You are so like me. Stop letting people walk all over you.
It's a ver hard lesson to learn and it has taken me 2 years now to get over the need to help people for nothing. Of course I am still soft, but I know how it works now. Chris, have a great big hug, people should not take advantage of you. Tell me who they are and I will send them a virus or go round with my frying pan.
""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""
Ohh send a virus, you can do that, its got me down, you help ppl and they laugh at you, i helped a few girls set up and gave them tips, even offered frre molds and they ignore me, just stabbed me in back.
cryingsmil
storm35
11-01-2007, 10:22 PM
think of this, your business pays your wages, your wages feeds your kids, if i ask for the food from your childrens mouths what would you say?
Would tell you where to go, probably in a nice wya aswell, am too soft lol.
Daffs
11-01-2007, 10:28 PM
Ohh send a virus, you can do that, its got me down, you help ppl and they laugh at you, i helped a few girls set up and gave them tips, even offered frre molds and they ignore me, just stabbed me in back.
cryingsmil
Okay let's think positive - you have an excellent client base now and a very good reputation. I bet the dn't have that!
What can some of us do for you? Do you need help with something??
storm35
11-01-2007, 10:33 PM
Okay let's think positive - you have an excellent client base now and a very good reputation. I bet the dn't have that!
What can some of us do for you? Do you need help with something??
You are soo right, no i dont need help my dear, just need to chill out, am needin to go away and practice some bubble bars, that will take my mind of scumbags.
Go and look at my pansyfeet i added under novelty singles and tell mee if they are pants, only made 4 up, am off, be back later, in an hour or so.
I need classes on how to toughen up, its not easy, mind i told you ALison to do it, but easier said than done eh??
shrugshoulders111
nicholamarie
11-01-2007, 11:36 PM
just looked at website. these soaps are sooooooo lovely. got a few birthdays next month they will make great pressies from the kids
Tanya
11-01-2007, 11:41 PM
just looked at website. these soaps are sooooooo lovely. got a few birthdays next month they will make great pressies from the kids
thanks Nic, get me something scrummy :party05:
Tanya
11-01-2007, 11:42 PM
People call you or email you, saying ohh i love your site and do you do wholesale, yes i do, ohh great, thanks for the catalogue will get back to you and by the way how do you get certified, does it cost, not that i am going to mak emy own soap, i just buy other ppls in and sell it, and where do you do blah blah and then they ignore you.
You got to msn and say hiya how you gettin on then they bugger off, just wanted info about legal stuff, and i give it out gladly, i never ever learn from that, as i am tooo nice, ppl say, so maybe its time to be big hard Chrisssy from now on and tell them no am sorry not goin to share anything with you, but thats not me, i hate gettin used and made a fool of i really really do.
Cx
that's really not nice of them to do that. You need to toughen up and not let people walk all over you.
You're tooooooo nice :kissykiss
nicholamarie
11-01-2007, 11:45 PM
thanks Nic, get me something scrummy :party05:
:happy72: it's not eddible just might be to lovely to use
nicholamarie
11-01-2007, 11:47 PM
think of this, your business pays your wages, your wages feeds your kids, if i ask for the food from your childrens mouths what would you say?
this is good advice, being strong is easier if its not face to face so if they phone or email etc you dont know who they are and you can tell them to get lost
storm35
11-01-2007, 11:47 PM
Thank you guys, as from tomorrow, am going to toughen up and not look back, the amount of calls and emails i have had in th epassed and let out little secrets, no more, am not doing it anymore.
Cxx
Sarah
11-01-2007, 11:48 PM
They won't take any business away from you hun because you are too good and we all love you. Just keep being your wonderful self and we'll keep supporting you :yes:
storm35
11-01-2007, 11:50 PM
this is good advice, being strong is easier if its not face to face so if they phone or email etc you dont know who they are and you can tell them to get lost
Your sooo right, but its hard for me, i should go back to being what i used to be years ago and take no crap, this has just got me down, acting all friendly to you and in the conversation, they are gettin secrets out of you.
Not nice, i had to work hard to get where i am now, research, sums, percentages, paperwork, certificates, so they can go and work for it to.
Cxx
nicholamarie
11-01-2007, 11:57 PM
Your sooo right, but its hard for me, i should go back to being what i used to be years ago and take no crap, this has just got me down, acting all friendly to you and in the conversation, they are gettin secrets out of you.
Not nice, i had to work hard to get where i am now, research, sums, percentages, paperwork, certificates, so they can go and work for it to.
Cxx
go girl you tell em:woot:
TopKat
12-01-2007, 07:40 AM
think of this, your business pays your wages, your wages feeds your kids, if i ask for the food from your childrens mouths what would you say?
That is exactly what I was going to say!! You have to get tough Chris, soaps put food on your table and clothes on the kids backs.....don't let people walk all over you and take advantage of your good nature.
darwins
12-01-2007, 07:47 AM
Would tell you where to go, probably in a nice wya aswell, am too soft lol.
well you are too soft! remember my order, and the issue over p&p?
smirnoff
12-01-2007, 10:05 AM
i will help you toughen up!! I am good at helping other people toughen up!!!!
storm35
12-01-2007, 11:20 AM
well you are too soft! remember my order, and the issue over p&p?
Emm yes but you are my friend and i wanted to do my best for you.
:happy72: :happy72:
Daffs
12-01-2007, 11:48 AM
Emm yes but you are my friend and i wanted to do my best for you.
:happy72: :happy72:
Seeeeee, soft!
storm35
12-01-2007, 11:54 AM
Seeeeee, soft!
:blusingan :blusingan :blusingan :yes:
Amandax
12-01-2007, 11:59 AM
You see the difference is that u r not only a brilliant salesperson BUT your a caring wonderful person too which is something they will NEVER be.
:cloud9:
Daffs
12-01-2007, 11:59 AM
:blusingan :blusingan :blusingan :yes:
Who is in your avatar?
Sluff
12-01-2007, 12:09 PM
Aww you are just so lovely and sensitive, you can't help the way you are. But.. you are just going to have to be politely rude to these people and tell them to p**s off :laugh:
TopKat
12-01-2007, 12:27 PM
Who is in your avatar?
Nikki and Sammi I think
storm35
12-01-2007, 12:53 PM
Who is in your avatar?
Thats is Nikki my 15yr old and Sammi who is 6yrs old.
Cxx""cutey""b
storm35
12-01-2007, 12:54 PM
Nikki and Sammi I think
Yup you got it in one Sioux.
Cxx
smirnoff
12-01-2007, 12:55 PM
Thats is Nikki my 15yr old and Sammi who is 6yrs old.
Cxx""cutey""b
OMG they are really beautiful.... really pretty... hope you have their chastity belts ready!!!!
storm35
12-01-2007, 01:28 PM
OMG they are really beautiful.... really pretty... hope you have their chastity belts ready!!!!
I have Sams ready, Nikki its too l ate for her lol.
She is in a relationship, has been for the last 9 months, the guy is so sweet, he has his work cut out with that one, hoenstly he has. His family are twats though, feel sorry for this guy.:kissykiss :kissykiss
smirnoff
12-01-2007, 01:30 PM
well "protection" then
NikiJ
12-01-2007, 01:54 PM
Aww Christine you are such a lovely person you will have to remember to keep your mouth zipped up when people ask for secrets ;)
Niki
xxx
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