livid

[Easties]

im sat here in tears
its my babies birthday today and nobody seems to give a s.it (apart from you lovely people)
me and dp had a lovely morning going to get his pressies ect (he had arranged with work to go in at around 5ish so he could see alex open his pressies and blow the candles out on his cake) we get home work have rung he has to go in for 3 :angry-smi123 kids dont come out till 3:15
so all in all he has seen his son for an hour (if that) this morning :angry-smi123
mums just text saying shes not comming to see him today but will be up tomorrow as shes got to pick dog up for the vets
so its just me jack and alex
none of dp family have called to wish him happy birthday (and im pretty sure they wont)
im sat here in tears another one ruined for him last year we couldnt afford to get him anything at all this year noone seems to give a s.it
i just dont know why i bother
i feel like im over reacting but every day off dp has they are on the bloody phone for something or other and then they go and do this ive just had a blasing row with dp even though its not his fault
why do i bloody bother

[rach04]

dont no what to say but couldnt read and run :kissykiss ""cutey""b ""cutey""b

[lisa1980]

""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b

[storm]

""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b Hugs for you and alex hun.

[runragged]

""cutey""b ""cutey""b God, that sucks, sorry to read this.

Why did dp have to go to work? That's insensetive, the bloody gits. :kissykiss

[Easties]

""cutey""b ""cutey""b God, that sucks, sorry to read this.

Why did dp have to go to work? That's insensetive, the bloody gits. :kissykisswell a few drivers havent showed up and because he is a controller he has to go in and cover for them its partly his bloody fault as he "forgot" to book the day off
what makes it worse is that alex is a real daddies boy
thanks guys im still shaking where i am so upset and angry

[purple_82]

I know how you feel hun. It's horrible when people can't spare a couple of hours to actually give a sh*t. Have a good cry and dust yourslf down and look forward to spending a special birthday with him. Hope you are feeling better soon :kissykiss


Happy Birthday Alex :woot:

[angel1980]

I'm sorry hun, don't know what to say really. He's got you though, and you can make his birthday special ""cutey""b Couldn't dp have told them where to go, was it a day's holiday today?

[bikemad]

Aaaww thats bad-if we live local id pop over with ds after school.""cutey""b ""cutey""b

[Easties]

**** just got a text saying he will be back in 20 mins not a clue whats going on now :no:

[Easties]

Aaaww thats bad-if we live local id pop over with ds after school.""cutey""b ""cutey""bawww bless you babe you are a sweetie

[Easties]

just got another text he has got to be back for 4:45 though well thats better than nothing so im a bit happier now

[Netty]

shrugshoulders111 either - but good that he'll be home for birthday cake!

[runragged]

Things are looking up a bit then!

tell him to turn his phone off in future on his days off! :fryingpan:

[Easties]

thanks guys bless him he said he was gonna have a go at them i just went yeah right but i think he may of done :clapping:

[sal1]

Aww bless, dp's and work do your head in, i hate dp's job to but there you go i wont rant will be here all day lol... Glad he's managed to get back home for the cake.. Aww at least his birthday will be special he as his mummy there... Knickers to the rest of the family.... Hope your ok now and he as a fab day xx

[Patti odoors]

Its good news that your dh can get back, I am sure you will have a great time anyway and he knows that the important people love him.

[sal1]

Good for him!!! And i dont blame him.... Well done to him for standing up to them xx

[smirnoff]

ooh hun if i was nearer we would invade!!! LOL

enjoy the birthday cake babe!!!

[storm]

Glad he will be there, even if its not as long as you all wanted!

[Easties]

thanks guys hes just come in he managed to get one of the duties covered lol

[hector]

:clapping: Thats great news Enjoy your party

[wokkies]

AWW hope alex enjopys himself what rotters the rest of the family are, sorry thomas trying to type, wish i lived nearer would come over with thomas then again you would have chucked us out after 2mins of him wrecking the p;lace, lol no he is quite good at other peoples houses and doesent flood their houses with his juice, lol hope alls going well

[essexgirl]

your dp sounds like my dp too soft but i dont think thats a bad thing as long as they are appriated glad he maneged to get away
hope alex enjoyed the rest of his day:party-smi

[Sluff]

Hope the party is in full swing now. So glad your dp managed to get home, even if only for a bit. xx

[Easties]

we not having a party lol just a cake and pressies with me dp and kids
dp just left for work again but got to see alex blow his candles and open his pressies even if it was a bit rushed lol
im a lot happier now
the kids are playing away lol
will upload some pics of him in a bit :happy72:

[Sarah]

Wipe away the tears and have some fun!! Sod the miserable lot who can't be arsed and do a little tea party just for the four of you. Don't let him pick up on your sadness - try and make it really happy for him. Do some games and dancing. All is not lost and it might end up being the best birthday ever!
Hugs for you though hun cos it's pants if you think no one cares :no:

[Olive_Oil]

doh ive come in a bit late here but just wanna say hope you have a great time!

[Katiequiggle]

""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b ""cutey""b

[kathyhinsh]

never mind hun, @ least he did manage 2 get back 4 a bit


& as 4 the others, well stuff them!
The 1s that really matter where there 4 ALex xxx

[nicholamarie]

hope alex had a good birthday, mummy was there thats the best bit, we always make it fun

[bikemad]

Wipe away the tears and have some fun!! Sod the miserable lot who can't be arsed and do a little tea party just for the four of you. Don't let him pick up on your sadness - try and make it really happy for him. Do some games and dancing. All is not lost and it might end up being the best birthday ever!
Hugs for you though hun cos it's pants if you think no one cares :no:

Im late comeing back to this thread but this sums up what id have replied-stuff the rest of them hun-he has you n daddy n thats whats important.:yes:

[Easties]

Im late comeing back to this thread but this sums up what id have replied-stuff the rest of them hun-he has you n daddy n thats whats important.:yes:yeah you are both so right and stuff them all he was so happy in the end bless him
so come on then when do we stop feeling so guilty about our kids (it dosnt really last forever does it?) :laugh:

[bikemad]

O god hope it dont last forever but saying that mil is still the same over dp as I am over ds!!!!!Dp is 38 but still her baby.

[Easties]

lmao mums and boys i think have a very special relationship a daughter is always a daughter but when your son gets a girlfriend (when they are older) it means someone else is cooking and cleaning for them and not mum
(off to chain boys to bed so they never get a girlfriend ) (only joking) :D

[bikemad]

:hysterica Very true.

[Girlzmum]

Oh honey, glad he was able to make it home to see Alex in the end, hope he had a brilliant day.
It's K's 1st birthday on Sunday and dh will still be in Chicago and I know he's absolutely gutted about it.
I can't believe his family didn't ring - I'd be so angry.

[sanjan]

awww bless you babe you are a sweetie

I would have done the same hun if I had been closer.

Did get on the pc last night so missed this.

Hope he had a good time and give him a hug ""cutey""b and say it is from one of his mumzone aunties and wish him happy birthday from me

[sanjan]

just read the rest of this thread and glad to read his dad got to see him blow out the candles and open the pressies.

to be honest what did you expect from the other side going by some of your post.

Sod em atleast they did not completely ruin the day and I bet Alex never noticed they had not been around as the main people in his life where there with him for the main part as far as he was concerned - pressies and cake