so bloody annoyed at my mother

[lindy]

:ac39: when i was little my mum would always cut our hair and i went around for most of my childhood with the wonkiest fringe you could ever imagine...

anyway...

ive been growing my youngest daughters fringe out for months,it had got to just below her chin and i could pin it back and it was really nice,we have real issues with her hair so i was happy with how it was going..

so...

she has just stayed at my mums for 2 days...

want to see how she has come back.....







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Mad is not the word for it,i was so angry i could have hit my mum i swear.:angry:

[Whassat]

omg!!!.why????......what did she use? the garden shears!..what did your dd say?...what did your mother say?
i can imagine how annoyed you must be, it must have took ages to grow it out that long in the first place!...i mean if she really wanted it cut why didn't she get it done properly!.....omg sorry. i keep having to look at it..its not really as if you could make it all one length the short bits are sooooooooo short.im no hairdreser but i think even i'd be able to cut a straight line..i'd be furious too, gorgeous looking little girl though. xxx

[lindy]

im heartbroken,to say the least,i went absolutley mad,almost to the point of walking out and not talking to her again,she didnt mean to do it so badly but i said to her have you not realised over the years just how shit at cutting hair you are?ive told her if she ever goes near any of my kids hairs again with a piar of scissors then so help her.:angry-smi123

[ruthie]

I bet you cry, did she do it with her eyes shut?!!! The good thing is it does show up your daughters beautiful eyes.

[MrTempleDene]

That's grim, and your DD looks so sad in that picture. I feel so sorry for her, and you.

Do you think your mum will do this sort of thing again? or has she got the hint yet?

[Tanya]

poor little thing, she looks sad in that picture, I can understand how mad you are, I can't believe she cut your dd's hair without even checking with you first
20061008 :fryingpan: :fryingpan:

was your dd really upset

[Bunny]

aaaawww she looks so sad and upset, what does your dd think of her new haircut ?

[lindy]

Lol i think she looks sad because i forced her to come in and have her piccie taken!!she thinks she is gorgeous no matter what (and she is:wub:) my mum has been told if she ever touches my kids hair ever again,especially without my permission then we shall not be talking for a very long time:angry:

[Bunny]

*hugs* it'll soon grow back, even if it means you having to tidy it up a little bit yourself

[lindy]

well im going to try but the thing is...India has refused to have her hair cut for months,she has sensory problems and her hair,so she says makes noises and it bothers her!!i dont know what in gods name my mum said to persuade her to cut it,i gave up trying months ago,hence the reasoning behind growing the fringe,il tidy it up if she will let me.:unsure:

[Tinkabell]

Why did she decided to cut it, surely she should have checked with you first.

[smirnoff]

hope you manage to do something with it!!! How did you not rant and rave at her??? I would be absolutely livid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She is a beautiful girl and very right about looking beautiful no matter what!!

[lindy]

Oh i did rant at her,i dont think ive ever gone quite so mental at my mum ever!!my husband left the room i was shouting so loud,my mum thinks she knows best and if she thought indias hair needed cut then it wouldnt have entered her head that i didnt want it cut,she knows how difficult indy is over having her hair cut and i think she thought she was doing me a favour,she wont make the same mistake ever again,i dont think she would dare!!

[smirnoff]

good for you!!!

[MrTempleDene]

If your DD is so awkward about having haircuts then maybe when your mum got her to agree she thought you'd be pleased as you said. I wish my MIL would persuade DS to have his cut, he just refuses at the moment.

[lindy]

she did and she was genuinally upset at how awful it had turned out,she knew she was in trouble,it could all have been avoided if she had just picked the phone up and asked me though!

[MrTempleDene]

good point, a quick "is it ok if" call would have worked wonders. Out of interest what would you have said to her if she'd made that call?

[lindy]

i would have said NOOOOOOO!!!!:happy72:

[MrTempleDene]

lol

[lizzie]

well im going to try but the thing is...India has refused to have her hair cut for months,she has sensory problems and her hair,so she says makes noises and it bothers her!!i dont know what in gods name my mum said to persuade her to cut it,i gave up trying months ago,hence the reasoning behind growing the fringe,il tidy it up if she will let me.:unsure:


Ah i thought so , DS2 and DS4 have same problem only i brought hair trimmers that are quiet took some doing but there boys so for a girl must be very hard hope your mum listens to you

[Katiequiggle]

I would have gone mad too. My Mum interferes in lots of things but she would never ever cut my childrens hair. Can't believe she did it.

On the plus point it does show off your daughters beautiful face and fabulous eyes.

[englishrose]

its always the same. lend something to someone and it comes back with bits missing.....


just remember it will grow back... got to keep smiling. my mum always did this sort of thing to me too

[myname]

Dh did this to dd1 when she was about 2. The fringe started off about 5cm long on one side and graduated up to a measly 2cm on the other side. Terrible. Luckily, it grew out quickly. Fortunately your dd looks lovely anyway. I can't imagine how your mum managed to cut it so badly though!

[Jess85]

Oh hun you poor thing and your poor dd! I can't believe your mum did it without asking, can she not see how badly she does it?! I hope you can get it tidied hun *hugs*

[Girlzmum]

OMG! :angry-smi123 I wouldn't even try to cut my dds hair and would be completely livid if my mum touched it without even saying something to me. What did your mum say about it?

[emma_buzz]

aaarrrhh bless her, that doesnt look like an adult cut that. could your daughter not have cut it her self and your mam is covering?? she is gorgeous though and just keep thinking it will grow back one day

[sanjan]

""cutey""b ""cutey""b

now take a deep breath


and repeat

it is only hair and will grow back over the holidays

and :crossfing your mother never touches it again

she looks really pretty despite looking sad

[lindy]

aw thanks you lot :happy72:

[Icedodge58]

Oh dear I have Had wonkie fringes before when I was a girl but that one takes the p**s :ac39:
Why on earth did she touch it without asking u first anyway.:fryingpan:

[lindy]

thats just my mother for ya!20061008

[lisa1980]

aaawww it does look bad i would never let my mum do dd's your mum should have asked first mums :angry-smi123

as the others have said it will grow back